Rites of Passage

Baptism • Confirmation & Reception • Weddings • Funerals & Memorial Services

Baptism

We believe the Sacrament of Holy Baptism, both instituted and commanded by Jesus Christ, is the means by which one enters into the fellowship of the Body of Christ. Furthermore, we also believe that God, in his grace, fills the one being baptized with the fullness of his Holy Spirit at his/her baptism, whether it is an infant, child or adult. Baptisms at St. Peter's are especially joyful celebrations for the whole community of faith. As such, we do not perform "private baptisms" except in cases of emergency. Baptisms are celebrated once every month, except during Lent, and on the four primary Holy Days specifically designated for Baptisms: The Great Vigil on the Eve of Easter, The Feast of Pentecost (fifty days after Easter) or Trinity Sunday, All Saints Day (Sunday closest to Nov. 1st), and The Feast of the Baptism of our Lord (the first Sunday after the Epiphany). All baptisms require baptismal a preparation class which is done in community with others who are preparing for baptism, or preparing to parent or godparent a baptizand.

Confirmation & Reception

  • Confirmation

    The sacrament of confirmation is the means by which an individual, after due preparation, makes a mature public affirmation of their faith. The bishop will lay hands on the individual and call the Holy Spirit into their life.

    This sacrament is available to all baptized members of the church, whether or not their baptism was in the Episcopal Church or another denomination.

    Confirmation normally occurs once a year at the annual visitation of the Diocesan Bishop. "Due preparation" includes participating in age-appropriate spiritual formation, usually on Sunday mornings, over the course of one or two years.

  • Reception

    Reception is the means by which a member of the church, who has been confirmed in another Christian denomination in apostolic succession (Roman Catholic, Orthodox and some Lutheran denominations), makes a public affirmation of their faith, receives the laying on of hands by the bishop and is received as a confirmed member of the Episcopal Church.

Ask about Confirmation & Reception

Weddings

If you are considering St. Peter’s Church as the venue for the blessing of your marriage, we would love to talk with you and hope we can assist you as you prepare for your life-long union.

For all marriages, at least one of the parties must be a baptized Christian. In the case of remarriage, at least one party must be an Episcopalian. All weddings at St. Peter’s are under the direction of the rector or staff clergy, are coordinated by our wedding guild and any decisions about the wedding must be made in consultation with them.

Except under extraordinary circumstances, no weddings will performed from Ash Wednesday through Easter. As to scheduling, it is always a wise decision to contact the church first before trying to find a place for your reception. No wedding can be scheduled less than 90 days prior to the planned date for the ceremony. If either party has been previously married, an additional 30 days will be required. It is recommended to schedule your wedding between six months to a year in advance. It takes quite a long time to plan a wedding well.

If you would like further information, please read our Wedding Guidelines. Once you have read them, please call the office, (858) 755-1616, to schedule an appointment with a priest.

It is our hope that your wedding will be a joyous celebration and expression of your mutual love. This day will always be remembered as one of the happiest and blessed days of your life together, especially because you are entering your marriage with God at the center.

Funerals & Memorial Services

We hope we can be of service to you as you mourn the loss of your loved one and consider the way in which you will celebrate his/her life. Whether you are seeking a Christian burial or memorial service, or assistance with a graveside interment, we would be happy to assist you however we can. While most of our funerals are provided for our deceased members, we regularly provide services for families in our wider community who have no church affiliation. The guidelines below will outline some of the choices you may make as you plan the funeral or memorial service, as well as the expenses that may be associated, depending on your choices. (There is no fee for the use of the church, nor for the clergy in officiating, but there is normally an honorarium for musicians and other personnel, and there are fees associated with engaging the parish hall for a reception).

We are sorry for your loss and would welcome the opportunity to assist you in any way we can during this difficult time. Please call the parish office at 858-755-1616 to set up a time to meet with a clergyperson, and to check the calendar for availability.