Funerals & Memorials
Remembering and Celebrating Those We Love
Thank you for allowing St. Peter’s the honor of walking alongside you during this time of grief and remembrance. As you celebrate the life of your loved one, please know that we are here to support you— in the planning process, and also in the days and weeks that follow. If you have questions at any point or simply wish to talk, please reach out to us. You are not alone.
Service & Reception Options
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Church Service
We humbly offer our church for funeral and memorial services free of charge, including flowers and bulletins. If you choose to have musicians and/or livestream the service, there will be a nominal fee to appropriately compensate the staff for their time.
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Reception
Our Parish Hall is available to rent for a reception. You can choose to have the reception here whether or not you have the service in our church.
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Graveside Service
Clergy are available to officiate at graveside services. While there is no charge, many families choose to make a gift to the Pastoral Need fund in gratitude and thanksgiving for the life of their loved one. The Pastoral Needs fund supports the clergy’s ongoing ministry to those in times of need.
What We Provide
Clergy consultation and officiating
Organist (optional)
Printed bulletins
Live streaming (upon request)
Access to grief and pastoral care resources
How to Begin
Contact the church office to set up a time to meet with clergy
Review the list of suggested music and readings
Meet with clergy to plan the service and fill out the service planning form
Know that we’re here to support you as you go through this process
FAQs
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A funeral typically takes place with the body or ashes present and may include a viewing beforehand. A memorial service is held after burial or cremation and usually does not include the remains. Both are sacred opportunities to give thanks for a life and commend a soul to God with the comfort of scripture, prayer, and music.
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Please contact the church office. Our clergy will speak with you as soon as possible to begin planning a service that honors your loved one with care and dignity.
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No. While many families connected to St. Peter’s choose to have services here, we welcome all who seek a sacred space for remembrance.
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Yes. The Episcopal liturgy offers space for personal touches. Our clergy will guide you in choosing scripture readings, hymns, and music. Secular readings or personal remembrances may be included before or after the liturgy, or at a reception, depending on the family’s wishes and the nature of the service.
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Yes. We advise having 1-2 speakers, and encourage them to write their remarks in advance, aiming for a length of 5–10 minutes (about 500–1000 words). In our experience, preparing ahead helps ensure that the memories shared are thoughtful, appropriate for the setting, and respectful of the time and emotions of all gathered. It can also be a source of comfort for the speaker, knowing their words have been carefully considered.
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Yes. Our Parish Hall or outdoor patio may be available for a reception following the service. We can help coordinate simple hospitality or work with your chosen caterer. Please note that use of our commercial kitchen is reserved for licensed caterers.
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St. Peter’s does not charge for funeral or memorial services without music. If you would like music and/or to have a reception on campus, our staff will provide a list of associated fees and answer any questions about costs.
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Yes. We can livestream or record the service to help family and friends who are unable to attend in person. There is a fee associated with live streaming in order to cover the costs of the staff member.
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Yes. Pre-planning is a thoughtful gift to your loved ones. Our clergy are available to meet with you in advance to discuss your wishes and create a plan that reflects your faith and values.
We’re here for you
When you’re ready, use this form to contact our church office for next steps.