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 We hope we can be of service to you as you mourn the loss of your loved one and consider the way in which you will celebrate his/her life. Whether you are seeking a Christian burial or memorial service, or assistance with a graveside interment, we would be happy to assist you however we can. While most of our funerals are provided for our deceased members, we regularly provide services for families in our wider community who have no church affiliation. The guidelines below will outline some of the choices you may make as you plan the funeral or memorial service, as well as the expenses that may be associated, depending on your choices. (There is no fee for the use of the Church, nor for the Clergy in officiating, but there is normally an honorarium for musicians and other personnel, and there are fees associated with engaging the Parish Hall for a reception).


We are sorry for your loss and would welcome the opportunity to assist you in any way we can during this difficult time. Please call the Parish Office at 858 755 1616 to set up a time to meet with a clergyperson, and to check the calendar for availability.

The Funeral Guidelines are found below:


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Worship this weekend! Sat. 5 p.m. (spoken), Sun. 7:45 a.m. (traditional, spoken), 9 a.m. Family Service (sung), 10 a.m. Sunday School, 11 a.m. (organ and choir)
September 2014
Su Mo Tu We Th Fr Sa
1 LABOR DAY - OFFICE CLOSED

Smart Recovery
Location: Cozy Corner
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

CODA 12 Step Group
Location: Youth Room
Time: 5:00pm -6:30pm

EfM Year 4 Potluck
Time: 6:00pm -8:00pm

CODA
Location: Youth Room
Time: 7:00pm -8:00pm

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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2 Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 7:00am -7:30am

Bible Study
Location: Library
Time: 7:30am -8:30am
Contact:  Hank George

Centering Prayer
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -9:30am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:00am -12:30pm

Staff Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 10:00am -12:00pm

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 4:00pm -5:00pm

Women's Cursillo Grouping
Location: Off Site
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm

12 Step Meditation
Location: Church
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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3 North Coast Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am
 

Nancy Holland Campus Visit
Location: Entire Campus
Time: 9:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Martha Anderson

Holy Eucharist with Anointing for Healing
Location: Church
Time: 9:30am -10:15am

Senior Coffee Hour
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Geoff Carson

Outreach Ministry Team Meeting
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 4:00pm -5:30pm
Contact:  Rev. Martha Anderson

St. Nicholas Choristers
Location: Music Center
Time: 4:00pm -6:00pm

Women's SLAA Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:30pm

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4 Life Story Writing
Location: Library
Time: 9:00am -11:30am

Al Anon
Location: Youth Room
Time: 9:30am -10:30am
Contact:  Deborah

Del Mar Rotary
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -2:00pm
Set up begins at 10:00am.  Contact:  Bil ...

Centering Prayer
Location: Youth Room
Time: 4:30pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Kathy Agnew Centering Prayer is ...

CEA-How Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:00pm
Contact:  Mary Klainer

Choir Rehearsal
Location: Music Center
Time: 7:00pm -9:00pm
Contact:  Ruben Valenzuela

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5 Del Mar Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am

Cursillo Grouping
Location: Library
Time: 7:45am -9:00am
Contact:  Fr. Tom Bond

Silver Yoga
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Bob Spindler

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 12:00pm -1:00pm

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6 Altar Guild
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -11:00am

St. Peter's Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:30am -11:00am
Contact:  Leeann Gooding

Set up for Sunday School Kick-Off
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -4:00pm

IFS Training Meeting
Location: First United Methodist Church
Time: 1:00pm -4:00pm

Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm

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7 Holy Eucharist Rite I
Location: Church
Time: 7:45am -8:45am

Children's Church
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

Family Worship with Communion
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

Sunday School Kick-Off
Location: Parish Hall & Patio
Time: 9:00am -12:00pm
Contact:  Leeann Gooding

Choral Eucharist, Rite II
Location: Church
Time: 11:00am -12:00pm

Choral Evensong with Sherry Reception
Location: Church and Parish Hall
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm
The Choir invites you to participate in a particul ...

Al Anon
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:30pm -7:00pm
First Sunday of the month includes a Newcomers Mee ...

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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8 Smart Recovery
Location: Cozy Corner
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

CODA 12 Step Group
Location: Youth Room
Time: 5:00pm -6:30pm

San Diego Children's Choir (Prep)
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Margie Orem

San Diego Children's Choir (Intermediate)
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 5:15pm -6:15pm
Contact:  Kirsten Shetler

EfM Year 4
Location: Library
Time: 6:00pm -8:30pm

EfM Year 3
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 6:30pm -9:00pm

CODA
Location: Youth Room
Time: 7:00pm -8:00pm

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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9 Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 7:00am -7:30am

Bible Study
Location: Library
Time: 7:30am -8:30am
Contact:  Hank George

Centering Prayer
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -9:30am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:00am -12:30pm

Staff Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 10:00am -12:00pm

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 4:00pm -5:00pm

Vestry Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 7:00pm -9:00pm

12 Step Meditation
Location: Church
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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10 North Coast Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am
 

Holy Eucharist with Anointing for Healing
Location: Church
Time: 9:30am -10:15am

Senior Coffee Hour
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Geoff Carson

St. Nicholas Choristers
Location: Music Center
Time: 4:00pm -6:00pm

Women's SLAA Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:30pm

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11 Life Story Writing
Location: Library
Time: 9:00am -11:30am

Al Anon
Location: Youth Room
Time: 9:30am -10:30am
Contact:  Deborah

Rotary International
Location: Youth Room
Time: 11:15am -12:15pm

Del Mar Rotary
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -2:00pm
Set up begins at 10:00am.  Contact:  Bil ...

Centering Prayer
Location: Youth Room
Time: 4:30pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Kathy Agnew Centering Prayer is ...

RDMAC HOA Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 5:30pm -7:00pm

CEA-How Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:00pm
Contact:  Mary Klainer

Choir Rehearsal
Location: Music Center
Time: 7:00pm -9:00pm
Contact:  Ruben Valenzuela

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12 Del Mar Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am

Cursillo Grouping
Location: Library
Time: 7:45am -9:00am
Contact:  Fr. Tom Bond

Toastmasters Board Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 9:00am -10:00am
Contact:  Nick Alameddin

Silver Yoga
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Bob Spindler

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 12:00pm -1:00pm

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13 Sunday School Teachers @ Goodings
Location: Gooding Home
Time TBD

Altar Guild
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -11:00am

Torrey Pines Docents
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 9:00am -12:00pm

Del Mar Foundation Playgrooup
Location: Nursery
Time: 10:30am -12:00pm

Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm

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14 Holy Eucharist Rite I
Location: Church
Time: 7:45am -8:45am

Family Worship with Communion
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

First Day of Sunday School
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

Forum: Youth Pilgrims Forum
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

Choral Eucharist, Rite II
Location: Church
Time: 11:00am -12:00pm

Al Anon
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:30pm -7:00pm
First Sunday of the month includes a Newcomers Mee ...

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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15 San Diego Museum of Art
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 9:00am -12:00pm

Smart Recovery
Location: Cozy Corner
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

CODA 12 Step Group
Location: Youth Room
Time: 5:00pm -6:30pm

San Diego Children's Choir (Prep)
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Margie Orem

San Diego Children's Choir (Intermediate)
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 5:15pm -6:15pm
Contact:  Kirsten Shetler

EfM Year 4
Location: Library
Time: 6:00pm -8:30pm

EfM Year 3
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 6:30pm -9:00pm

CODA
Location: Youth Room
Time: 7:00pm -8:00pm

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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16 Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 7:00am -7:30am

Bible Study
Location: Library
Time: 7:30am -8:30am
Contact:  Hank George

Centering Prayer
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -9:30am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:00am -12:30pm

Staff Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 10:00am -12:00pm

Seniors' Lunch
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -2:00pm
Luncheon begins at noon with set up at 10:00.

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 4:00pm -5:00pm

12 Step Meditation
Location: Church
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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17 North Coast Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am
 

Holy Eucharist with Anointing for Healing
Location: Church
Time: 9:30am -10:15am

Senior Coffee Hour
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Geoff Carson

St. Nicholas Choristers
Location: Music Center
Time: 4:00pm -6:00pm

Women's SLAA Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:30pm

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18 Life Story Writing
Location: Library
Time: 9:00am -11:30am

Al Anon
Location: Youth Room
Time: 9:30am -10:30am
Contact:  Deborah

Del Mar Rotary
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -2:00pm
Set up begins at 10:00am.  Contact:  Bil ...

Centering Prayer
Location: Youth Room
Time: 4:30pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Kathy Agnew Centering Prayer is ...

Fellowship Meeting
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 6:00pm -8:00pm

CEA-How Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:00pm
Contact:  Mary Klainer

Choir Rehearsal
Location: Music Center
Time: 7:00pm -9:00pm
Contact:  Ruben Valenzuela

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19 Del Mar Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am

Cursillo Grouping
Location: Library
Time: 7:45am -9:00am
Contact:  Fr. Tom Bond

Silver Yoga
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Bob Spindler

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 12:00pm -1:00pm

Igor's Violin Studio
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:00pm -8:30pm

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20 Altar Guild
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -11:00am

Chamber Music Request
Location: Entire Campus
Time: 1:30pm -5:30pm
Contact:  Janet White

Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm

Supper Club Kick Off
Time: 6:00pm -8:00pm

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21 Holy Eucharist Rite I
Location: Church
Time: 7:45am -8:45am

Children's Church
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

Family Worship with Communion
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

Forum: Compassion of Jesus 1
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

Choral Eucharist, Rite II
Location: Church
Time: 11:00am -12:00pm

Chamber Music Request
Location: Entire Campus
Time: 1:30pm -5:30pm
Contact:  Janet White

Al Anon
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:30pm -7:00pm
First Sunday of the month includes a Newcomers Mee ...

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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22 Smart Recovery
Location: Cozy Corner
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

CODA 12 Step Group
Location: Youth Room
Time: 5:00pm -6:30pm

San Diego Children's Choir (Prep)
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Margie Orem

San Diego Children's Choir (Intermediate)
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 5:15pm -6:15pm
Contact:  Kirsten Shetler

EfM Year 4
Location: Library
Time: 6:00pm -8:30pm

EfM Year 3
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 6:30pm -9:00pm

CODA
Location: Youth Room
Time: 7:00pm -8:00pm

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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23 Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 7:00am -7:30am

Bible Study
Location: Library
Time: 7:30am -8:30am
Contact:  Hank George

Centering Prayer
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -9:30am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:00am -12:30pm

Staff Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 10:00am -12:00pm

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 4:00pm -5:00pm

IFS Branch Meeting
Location: Bethlehem Lutheran Chruch
Time: 6:00pm -7:00pm

12 Step Meditation
Location: Church
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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24 North Coast Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am
 

Holy Eucharist with Anointing for Healing
Location: Church
Time: 9:30am -10:15am

Senior Coffee Hour
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Geoff Carson

St. Nicholas Choristers
Location: Music Center
Time: 4:00pm -6:00pm

Women's SLAA Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:30pm

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25 Life Story Writing
Location: Library
Time: 9:00am -11:30am

Al Anon
Location: Youth Room
Time: 9:30am -10:30am
Contact:  Deborah

Del Mar Rotary
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:00pm -2:00pm
Set up begins at 10:00am.  Contact:  Bil ...

Centering Prayer
Location: Youth Room
Time: 4:30pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Kathy Agnew Centering Prayer is ...

CEA-How Meeting
Location: Youth Room
Time: 6:30pm -8:00pm
Contact:  Mary Klainer

Choir Rehearsal
Location: Music Center
Time: 7:00pm -9:00pm
Contact:  Ruben Valenzuela

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26 Del Mar Toastmasters
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 7:30am -9:00am

Cursillo Grouping
Location: Library
Time: 7:45am -9:00am
Contact:  Fr. Tom Bond

Silver Yoga
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Bob Spindler

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 12:00pm -1:00pm

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27 Altar Guild
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -11:00am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 10:30am -12:00pm

Chamber Music Request
Location: Entire Campus
Time: 1:30pm -5:30pm
Contact:  Janet White

Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm

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28 Holy Eucharist Rite I
Location: Church
Time: 7:45am -8:45am

Joy to the World Kindergarten Book Sale
Location: Patio
Time: 8:00am -11:00am
Contact:  Cathy Straitiff

Family Worship with Communion
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -10:00am

Forum: Compassion of Jesus 2
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

Choral Eucharist, Rite II
Location: Church
Time: 11:00am -12:00pm

Daughters of the King
Location: Library
Time: 11:15am -12:45pm
Contact:  Gail Carr

DoK Brunch
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 12:30pm

Al Anon
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:30pm -7:00pm
First Sunday of the month includes a Newcomers Mee ...

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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29 Clergy Conference

Smart Recovery
Location: Cozy Corner
Time: 10:00am -11:00am

CODA 12 Step Group
Location: Youth Room
Time: 5:00pm -6:30pm

San Diego Children's Choir (Prep)
Location: Music Center
Time: 5:00pm -6:00pm
Contact:  Margie Orem

San Diego Children's Choir (Intermediate)
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 5:15pm -6:15pm
Contact:  Kirsten Shetler

EfM Year 4
Location: Library
Time: 6:00pm -8:30pm

EfM Year 3
Location: Parish Hall
Time: 6:30pm -9:00pm

CODA
Location: Youth Room
Time: 7:00pm -8:00pm

AA
Location: Music Center
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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30 Clergy Conference

Holy Eucharist
Location: Church
Time: 7:00am -7:30am

Bible Study
Location: Library
Time: 7:30am -8:30am
Contact:  Hank George

Centering Prayer
Location: Church
Time: 9:00am -9:30am

Del Mar Foundation Playgroup
Location: Nursery
Time: 9:00am -12:30pm

Staff Meeting
Location: Library
Time: 10:00am -12:00pm

Al Anon
Location: Library
Time: 4:00pm -5:00pm

12 Step Meditation
Location: Church
Time: 8:00pm -9:00pm

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